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[quote=Anonymous]I’d look into seeing a sex therapist that deals with disabilities. There are many different ways to be intimate, and there are other ways to satisfaction other than PIV. There are also other medical interventions that *may* help.

There are a few things at play, and not least of all, likely his sadness and frustration over not being able to perform, and your own feelings of dissatisfaction. This is a hard discussion that you need to resolve, lest it deteriorate into other areas of your marriage (which it may have already).

You’re not a horrible person for seeking outside intimacy, but it’s not the answer if it’s going to blow up your marriage in terms of lying, lack of communication, etc.

It sounds kind of unresolved, but remember.. this is the rest of your life. Seek professional help, even if it feels embarrassing and awkward at first. People with all kinds of disabilities, and their partners, can have very satisfying sex lives. It, like so many other things in life, takes work, commitment, and above all, communication. [/quote]

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