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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I'm in a similar situation as you. What I've started to do is to make more friendships outside of the marriage. I gravitate towards people who have the qualities DH is lacking, and it helps some. Obviously some of these things dont translate well such as sexual stuff. However things like finding someone interesting can be done. I even have found a male friend who is very chivalrous, and it helps me to be less resentful of DH for not being so. I hasn't completely solved my problems, I still daydream of finding someone better. But it has eased the frustration substantially. Good luck![/quote]

Hahaha. OP is disappointed in her DH income.  How do you find friends to pay for a life style upgrade?

And it sounds like you are on the edge of an emotional affair, you recommend that?![/quote]

LOL, this is why so many people who are married a miserable. An emotional affair? What even is that? Just because I am married doesn't make me prohibited from making emotional connections with others...whether they be male or female. Love and belonging are human necessities. Getting married was not an agreement to cut myself emotionally from the rest of the world. If that is how your marriage works, that's fine. I was just offering some alternative suggestions for OP. It's up to each individual household to find what works for them.[/quote]

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