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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I was laying in the bed with boyfriend and saw a text on his phone come through from his ex-wife. I asked him what it was about because it was late. He wouldn't show me the text, but said it had to do with one of their children. They haven't been divorced long (6 mos) and I'm concerned that he's not over her. We started dating a year before their divorce was final and they fought a lot over every detail of custody, the house and alimony. He shared a lot with me about how mean and vindictive she was. Anyway, this morning I looked at his texts and saw that he sent her a Merry Christmas text and a Happy New Year text. Why is he being nice to her? Like why does he even still care to do this? I get that they have kids, but this seems a little too buddy, buddy for me. Should I be concerned that he's not over her? [/quote]

you are not ready to date  man with kids.  He should be doing everything possible to have a civil relationship with his ex. If him wishing her merry christmas bothers you, you need to break up.  She will be in his life in some way forever. I have never dated a man with kids but this seems pretty obvious. Also, you are only getting one side of the story. No one paints themselves as the a-hole in a break up.   Are you a lot younger than your boyfriend?[/quote]

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