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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]NP here.  So a serious question for the women AP’s:  are there any traits you see in men who will cheat on their spouses vs. divorcing?  I guess are there certain traits/ careers/ mindset that you find common in those men?  Again, if they are unhappy in a marriage, they can divorce and so just trying to see if there’s any way to identify those men in advance.[/quote]

They actually have a sense of duty, love their kids and respect their wives for what they bring to the table.  They know they have it good with the only part that’s missing being sex, or enough sex.   I’ve had men telling me upfront that do not intend to leave their wives ever.[/quote]

I think you have accepted that men do this and are fine with it and so can see that cheating is not a big deal.  For some of us, it is a big deal and so would find it hard to accept.  I think this difference in mindset is what you are seeing play out on this thread. I don’t think the blame should be yours  because it’s the husband’s fault.

As others have mentioned in this thread, many men cheat  because of the excitement that this type of relationship brings.  That would be hard to replicate in a marriage and so what many men say about not enough/good sex could be a red herring.  Also, your description of those men as having sense of duty and respect for their wives seems in contrast to the way many of us would see it as antithesis to our views about trust and respect.

Would you be ok if your husband ever cheated on you (if you were to get married)?  How would you screen for men who would be prone to this type of behavior?[/quote]

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