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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So, op lives here and has all the peace she wants all the time from her own parents, but can't understand that a new mom wants some nuclear family time alone?[/quote]

Banning a spouse from texting his family isn't about boundaries, it's about control.  That's way over the top.[/quote]
That's what douche brother said. I would not be surprised if he badmouths his mom, dad and sister to his wife. I would not believe a word he says.It is very clear that something happened in April when baby got sick. New mom, baby in the hospital, and yet, a previously nice sil became a hound from hell? Give me a break.[/quote]

Totally this. One of my SILs could’ve easily been OP posting about me about 10yrs ago. The truth? DH doesn’t like spending time with his parents and sister and fees smothered and henpecked. He was throwing me under the bus because it was easier than taking ownership. I demanded marriage counseling (and would recommend that here).

This whole issue is a VERY common theme on this board “ahhh my brother changed ever since he married Larla!”.

99% of the time the problem is between the DH and his family. That is always the root cause. The spouse may make it a bit better or worse but the problem is in the family relationship ITSELF. No one ever ever wants to believe that because it is easier to blame “SIL” rather than your blood relative and YOURSELF. [/quote]

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