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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This sounds just like my sister in law who it turned out was being terribly abused by her husband, who also didn’t want her seeing her family. You never know what goes on in people’s lives. It’s best not to assume you know their motivations.[/quote]

I wish I could connect more with her. I really try. Most of you are telling me I’m being an asshole when I honestly just want to talk to my sister.[/quote]

If you just want to talk to your sister, TALK to her. You say you haven't even responded to her email as yet, but yet you're harassing your father about her email. People might be calling you an asshole because you seem hell bent on demonizing your sister (to strangers and to your parents) instead of trying to communicate with her. Now you say she's always done this, then why make such a big deal out of it this time? You "thought she would have changed." Why? Has there even been a frank conversation where you truly try to reach each other? It's as if you have a well-established dysfunctional relationship and are using this latest episode to reinforce whatever negativity you already feel toward her.[/quote]

Harassing? What? I asked him if he had seen it and he said yes, and then said what I posted earlier. I don't understand how that's harassment. [/quote]

Is that really all you noticed? It says a lot that you now choose sarcasm instead of answering any of the questions you've been asked.[/quote]

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