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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I always love how women feel their money is their money and men are supposed to provide. If you reversed the genders here, op would be savaged!!![/quote] Huh? My DH works and I am a SAHM. He believes that his money is our money and we do not have seperate finances. If I was still working the money would go in a common pot. Currently I have 500K in my own 401K from the time I was working. DH and I have designated it to be given to both the kids for grad school, their first car, downpayment to their first house and their wedding. I am not freaking out that it will be given to the kids. There is something fundamentally wrong in the marriage when you have seperate finances. I do not know why OP had to marry the guy?. They both were divorced with their own kids, why not just cohabit together?[/quote]
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