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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He’s lying about what his therapist is saying. He’s not grounded in reality right now — he’s unwell — so you can’t really trust a word of what he’s saying. Nor can you remain married to him.

You’ve posted a lot about your marriage (over a period of months) and he’s threatened many times to leave...told you many times it’s over...but I think you are going to have to be the one to leave. He’s going to continue acting crazy but he’s not going anywhere.[/quote]

+1.  I would have thought this was obvious - you have to be the one to file and leave.  Please visit a lawyer this week and get started. Pay for 1-2 hours of consult time and figure out what papers and accounts you have to close, get copies of, etc., and how to protect yourself financially.  Think strategically with your lawyer - if you invited your ex to sign a pre-written divorce/settlement, would he do it?  Or will you have to file and serve him?

Please be aware that it’s not uncommon for bipolar spouses to disappear during mania - and this complicates divorce enormously.

I know it seems overwhelming, but it’s best for you and him. [/quote]

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