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[quote=Anonymous]Trust your gut.  Your husband leaving a work event with another woman and having drinks with her is wrong.  I can only imagine how most men would react if the situation were reversed.  Men rarely get solo drinks with a woman, even a colleague, they aren’t attracted to.

I was in a similar situation as you and am a pretty relaxed individual.  So I kind of just ignored it.  Their “relationship” only got more intense and I noticed frequent texting.  Once I started picking up on little things (you picked up on the first thing - he lied about the drinks) then I stared noticing many things.  I ended up finding out they were having a full blown affair.  They were going to hotels to have sex.

There is a reason your husband hasn’t told you about this woman.  Start doing some thinking and you may notice some little things that make you even more curious.

A reason to not confront him yet is that he will lie.  Unless you have concrete evidence then you won’t really find out the truth.  He is going to lie to you and cover his tracks.  You’ll start feeling crazy and he’ll make you think you’re crazy.  He will probably continue cheating.

Mine did the above.  Then I came across an email from his AP about a hotel being charged to her card and it needing to be on his charge.  The email was a forward of the hotel bill for a hotel in the same city we live in.  He STILL tried to lie about it.

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