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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The female AP is just a convenient hole.  There is no love story here. Extra-marital sex is a bodily function for men, like taking a dump. + The female AP is willing to do the kind of sex acts that the wife is not willing to - anal, bondage, golden showers...so the man gets his fun in and yet preserve his family.  The men certainly do not want to have kids with the female AP. [/quote]

OMG this is so offensive on so many levels.  Equating sex with female AP is like taking a dump is repulsive.

This is so misogynistic.  Hope you don’t have a daughter.[/quote]

I'm a woman and would have to agree with him to an extent. Most are simply a hole in the mattress to these cheaters. However, once the wife finds out they've destroyed any love the wife felt. It's not how women look at it. A total betrayal. The marriage is completely dirtied not to mention the possible STDs he picked up from such a woman. Really the foundation of trust is destroyed forever. Sure they can preserve "The Family", but the marriage will be fake after that. [/quote]

Agreed that if the wife finds out the marriage is destroyed in many case. However, the men do not have an affair with the intention of being caught or leaving their wives.  They get caught because they invariable choose a mentally unhinged AP ( sane healthy women with self-respect will not touch a married man, and since the AP is just a hole and not the mother of the man's children, he does not care about the mental state of the woman) and they eventually tattle.

Case in point, the woman who is accusing Matt Lauer of rape.  She had anal with him in the first encounter and then continued to have sex with him consensually multiple times. When he broke off with her, she tattled.

The best AP is usually a married working woman who does not work in the same office or organization and who does not want to break her own marriage and just want sexual release. Men usually cannot find a person like this because they also want a younger woman.

There is a reason that moneyed men go for Sugar Babies and prostitutes.

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