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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]But seriously, OP, what do you do all day? Do you have some sort of hobby or volunteer gig that takes up your time?[/quote]

I’m a PP and I’ll repeat what I wrote above. Why is that anyone’s business how she chooses to spend her days?[/quote]

Because it contributes to the patriarchal society that we all live in and sets a terrible example for children.  but SAHMs are selfish by nature, so they don’t care. ME ME MEEE![/quote]

Surprised it took that many pages to lay bare what is really behind the animosity towards SAHMs.  Its a betrayal of the so-called sisterhood.  Note these same folks applaud religious women who put on hijabs as an empowered choice.

[b]The real resentment is also because their staying at home allows their husbands careers to take off which is a big advantage over working women with no such luxury[/b].[/quote]

I think it’s the opposite.  It makes me sad when a couple is equals prekids and then the woman becomes a SAHM.  Because then his career takes off due to her free labor.  It’s incredibly unfair to the woman and it’s obvious she’s no longer an equal.

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And how anyone could argue otherwise is really just ... sad.[/quote]

This says a lot about your marriage and none of it is good.

Sorry you have a shitty marriage but don’t take it out on other people. That doesn’t make you smart, it just makes you a bitch.[/quote]

I have a wonderful marriage. Of equals.[/quote]

Uh huh. That’s why you feel the need to lash out at people who make different choices and be a huge bitch for no reason. Makes complete sense :roll:

I’m a working mom by the way[b]. I just don’t think every marriage is centered on money[/b]. [/quote]

Of course not.  But it’s incredibly difficult to have a marriage of equals when one partner is an unpaid maid, chauffeur, cleaning lady and childcare provider.

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Lol

You may look at it like that but ime people who choose to stay home do so because they want to. So they don’t feel like an unpaid maid. They feel lucky to have the luxury of time to feather their nests.[/quote]

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