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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am on the other side of this. I do not have a terminal illness diagnosed right now, but my muscle weaknesses and becoming more frail by the day is leading my doctors and me to that conclusion. I DO NOT want to burden my fantastic wife with this. She has been by me through little thick and very thin, we have been together through my divorce and our growing our family for almost 30 years now, about every minute of the day. I do not want her to feel that she has to care for me, but I also know I only have one other option. She is not the type to leave, she will do everything for me if I want. How do I let her know its OK to NOT be that person, that I want her to be happy and continue to do what I no longer can (go to movies, dance, all the fun stuff we did together?) I do not want to commit suicide, because I do not want to abandon her, but what is there to do?[/quote]

You sound dramatic.  You had an affair with her.  You are not a very good person for cheating on your first wife. [/quote]

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