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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The conclusion of "riskier" for C-sections doesn't account for permanent birth injuries. Frankly the fact that PP is parroting that line without understanding the underlying studies makes her point suspect.

The C-section research re risks often includes high risk births and mothers with preexisting bad health conditions, but often doesn't include permanent vaginal birth injuries. Therefore the assessment of risk is a lot more nuanced than how PP is making it sound.[/quote]

Of course it’s nuanced.  Speaking of nuance, you and others are doing a nice job of ignoring the pelvic floor damage done by pregnancy.  Moreover, I understand the underlying studies just fine.  It’s a very, very complicated issue.  And no one with any integrity would say that overall, major surgery carries less risk than not.

I know this issue evokes strong emotions, which is really what many (most?) of these posts are about.  And again, the bigger issue is women’s health, period.[/quote]

[b]What's annoying is that this is a post from an OP who needs a c section and is just asking for some positive experiences and a bunch of people feel the need to come on and throw shade at women who liked their c section experiences.[/b][/quote]

+1  There's a time and a place, but unfortunately there's a subsection on these boards that think those are always and everywhere.[/quote]
Who is throwing shade at women who liked their c-sections? Seriously? [b]People are discussing pros and cons, risks and benefits.[/b] It's not "throwing shade" or "shaming" anyone to state facts and every opinion isn't a judgment of someone else's experience or decision.[/quote]

And since this thread was an OP who has no choice but to get a C-section [b]specifically asking for the benefits[/b], this thread is not the TIME nor the PLACE for your "well actually have you heard about all the risks" BS.  Start your own thread.[/quote]

It's clear those PPs have a compulsive need to control the birth experience of other women that is deeply seeded.[/quote]
Control? You are the one trying to censor the thread and calling posters misogynists (classic DCUM insult btw). No one even posted about c-section risks except in response to other posts that were misleading and all "I don't understand why anyone would opt for a VBAC" which triggered a few responses of the type you are pissed about. [/quote]

You are now fabricating the thread history to justify your appalling behavior. Nobody posted misleading posts because they were talking about their own personal history. Unless, of course, you consider positive birth experience with C-section to be "misleading," or the PP who had awful vaginal injuries who talked about them someone you want to shut up because she doesn't support the narrative you are peddling.

You people are just awful. [/quote]

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