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[quote=Anonymous]I am guessing you have all seen the porn sites kids are accessing? Red tube, pornhub, etc etc etc? Some of the stuff on there does not look enjoyable. I am bothered with an anecdotal suspicion I have picked up that most porn actors were sexually abused children, never getting to own their own bodies and just displaying for a camera what has felt inescapable. I cringe at the idea of those scenes setting the bar. Anyone hear that NPR piece about the rats wearing jackets during their first sexual climax, and not being able to climax without their jackets? I shudder to think of the young people I love or their friends becoming accustomed to acts that degrade or demoralize. I know they will watch porn so I try to open dialogues about what they see, and encourage them to choose actual people (amateur porn sites ... I once knew names of a few , make love not porn? Something like that was one I think). Anyway, from the conversations I’ve had I get the impression there has been a shift and gender fluidity is one big shift. It is not only girls who are nonplussed to be bisexual but their male peers are also open to experiences. I heard from a kid I viewed as very cis gendered how he went a few months only watching man on man porn. And, sorry to burst your insulated dreamscape but these kids I talk to are totally typical, upstanding young people whom adults find likeable and well adjusted. If the young ppl in your life are exposed to things you haven’t given much thought to....maybe figure out what framework you can offer them.[/quote]

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