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Reply to "How awful would it be if my DD didn't attend her dad's wedding?"
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[quote=Anonymous]OP sometimes we get caught up doing the "right thing" under normal circumstances. Your situation is not a normal circumstance. And I'm so sorry. I won't rehash the things ex should have done to ensure his daughters well being at his wedding. An important missing point here is that he did not plan or respect the well being of the mother of his child. The only person that matters in all of this is your daughter who may be very mature for a 3 year old, but I'd never throw her into that situation. The thing that's most worrisome (and it may just have been your paraphrasing) is MIL "will keep an eye on her." Um, one keeps an eye on a teen guest to make sure they're not hitting up the open bar! One attends to a 3 year old 100%, especially in such an overwhelming situation at 7 pm when she normally is going to sleep for the night. No compliance is needed unless he deserves it for being a stellar father emotionally, financially and is physically present in her life. If so, he pays for a sitter of your choosing for one hour, you wait wherever your dear heart desires. All the best. [/quote]
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