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[quote=Anonymous]I'm guessing that the PP ranting about whether the wife invites her own mother to stay is a pissed off MIL who feels she isn't getting what she is entitled to get. This post has nothing to do with the OP's wife's mother so stop projecting your whiny insecurity over whether your grandma competition is getting more than you. Geez.

For the OP I would strongly urge you not to tell your mother that your wife is just upset about what she said. My guess from your post and behavior is that you know very well how your mother is pushy and wants to get her way/not take no for answer. Your mother will want to confront your wife to educate her on how she is wrong and then waltz her pushy butt into your house. This will not go well.

People -including older people need to stop behaving like entitled children. You don't demand or insist to stay at someone's house. You don't keep tabs on what the other in laws are getting to do or not do. You don't demand things be perfectly equal like you were 6. If you want a good relationship with someone you need to behave appropriately. This means not saying nasty things to people or inviting herself over.

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