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[quote=Anonymous]Time to start adulting and stop blaming your wife for a choice YOU made months ago. 
You have several options here. You can 
A: stay home and spend the holiday with your family
B. go and OWN the fact that  YOU made this decision to go and not blame/guilt your wife for not deciding to change plans and go with. Ask your wife to leave up decorations and celebrate when you get back just like it was Xmas morning.
C. go for less time (why you would plan a week is beyond me)

But please stop trying to put this on your wife. You sound very passive aggressive in your responses about her not wanting to go. Yeah, no sh!t Sherlock. It is the holidays with a small child. Of course she wants to be at home with family and likely would want you there too. But smiled and agreed to you flying out to see your extended family instead of the new one you created with her.

I doubt this is the first time you have chosen your extended family to her and now your child. Use this as a wakeup call to get your prioritise in order and talk with your wife about decisions, don't bully/guilt her into agreeing with you. [/quote]

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