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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Don’t. You will scratch your itch but later on you may end up dealing with a lot of troubles (breaking your spouse trust, possible divorce, messing up your colleague family, your kids in therapy after separation, lawyers bills etc). Not worth the risk.[/quote]

OP here. I am aware of the consequences of my actions should it be found out. However, that wasn't the intent of my post. I am interested in pursuing this, just not sure how as I've never had an affair before. I know it's wrong on many levels to sleep with a man thats not my husband. That doesnt change the fact I still want to, and would given the chance. I just dont know how to approach him, and I may very well get shut down if he is like the rest of you shaking your finger at me[/quote]

I think ... you just tell him. One day over coffee just tell him you are wildly attracted to him and see what he says. It might move forward from there. [/quote]
No. Men want to think they’re pursuing, even if they’re it. Give him a few openings and let him come to you. If he doesn’t get the first few hints you can make it a little more obvious but if he doesn’t bite then, drop it. Oh, and don’t shit where you eat!  ;-)[/quote]

That's fine for you. I've always had success with this method. I've been approaching men since HS. Either they like it and ask me out or they don't and they don't ask me out. But that's me. OP do what works for you.[/quote]

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