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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This would bother me too. OP, have your own shower. Make it no gifts, but invite your friends for a belated bridal shower. We don’t do games at showers in our family, but if you do, do all the games, have a cake, mimosas, etc. And I would 100% correct my mom. “We paid for Jenny’s wedding. It’s what parents do!” “Actually, mom and dad paid for close to half of the wedding expenses. John and I saved to pay for the bulk of the expenses.” I am sure that makes me a small person, but whatever. [/quote] I don’t think it’s petty as long as you’re polite. “We were so grateful you could contribute half the costs of the wedding! It was a big help when we were saving for wedding expenses.” That way she can still say “you’re welcome” but you’re not participating in a lie. [/quote]
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