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Ok OP I'll work with you here. I think I get you. I'm the poster from 4/4 10:06

You are passive and a bit shy to flirt back but not shutting him down. Seems like he gets you too. You don't want him to stop, that's clear to him (and me). You want him to initiate more than this flirty banter because that turns you on (nothing wrong with this). You're a "good girl", probably raised this way culturally/religiously (that's ok). 
You're fantasizing about being intimate with him (you have a pulse girl). Your " good girl" values or guilt are questioning his intentions (normal). You won't know what his intentions are unless you ask him if he is still in a relationship. In order for this to happen, you need to have an actual conversation. This probably can't happen at work. Here's options:

1. Ask him to have coffee with you because see #2
2. He's not going to catch the elevator door and come in to passionately kiss you (as hot as this fantasy is)
3. He's probably enjoying the sexual tension that he's building in you (he sees it and it's making him crazy)
4. Play the game better than him. Build up your confidence at home, alone, fantasizing about him and think about that the next time he's teasing you (because that's what he's doing). You know what you need to do in a subtle way to react to his touch or gaze. Breathy voice, touch him back, maybe close your eyes when he touches you. 
5. Play him...he'll make that next move if you can hold out longer than him. 
6. Most importantly, are you absolutely sure you are DTF only? 
7. If so, proceed with 1-6 because the sex will be over the top and he may fall deeply in love with you for beating him at his game.

You've got this! Add a little something to the mix, every single time. Look hot, be hot and rock his world. Have fun!!!  [/quote]

THANK YOU for the great advice! I feel like you really got where I was coming from. Yes, I was raised to be this way but I guess I have to push through if I want to make my intentions knows. Thanks again, I think you gave great advice.

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Girl. Get some confidence. Not for this stupid scenario or lame ass office predator, but someone that can show interest in a healthy and real way. You want to believe he’s into you, he’s not. You are definitely being made fun of to his buddies at happy hour. [/quote]

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