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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So how many people whose kids with witnessing illegal or violent behavior are withdrawing your students. [/quote]

I’m not. Most everything discussed, excluding the girl pushing the boy down the stairs—only because we didn’t have any, happened at my middle school. Pretty normal, IMHO. I think DC has a large number of pearl-clutching parents who want their kids to have some small town middle school experience. They just can’t deal with the reality that their children are attending a large urban middle school so they lash out at minorities, OOB, and poor kids. They have a chip on their shoulder that they can’t afford Sidwell or St. Albans/NCS.[/quote]

Uh, no.  And I’m not a Deal parent or at a feeder school so have no skin in the game.  Sounds like major problems.  Parents like you who don’t acknowledge it is bad for the school.  Instead, parents should acknowledge it’s a problem, advocate that administration take action to address it, and have transparent consequences for these kids and follow thru.

The attitude that it’s nothing will just make the problem worst.  Kids that get away with this will continue to do so and influence other kids.  Worst of all, it’s distracting and disruptive to all the kids who want to learn.[/quote]

Are you even a DCPS parent?  Somehow I bet you are not.

You cannot have transparent consequences when there are minors involved.

No one said these incidents are minor or that anyone should get away with anything - please cut and paste where someone said that - but what I and others have said is that these incidents are not that unusual for a large and diverse middle school.  I posted this last night but Deal is tame compared to what I dealt with at the same age.

Also there is no evidence that I am aware of that the school is not dealing with all of the incidents - aside from some allegations on this thread I've never heard that and we know one of the parties involved in an oft discussed incident and it was definitely dealt with though of course there are apparently other incidents and maybe some of those were not but our anecdotal experience is that the school is aggressively dealing with these issues.[/quote]

Yes I have a child in DC in school.

The poster made incorrect and baseless assumptions about pearl clutching parents with chips on their shoulder whose kids did not get into private school.
They said this is normal - translate how you want but normal to most people implies expected, not of consequences.  It sure is not serious or major, i.e minor.
Teacher turnover is high, and a teacher posted on here that administration is not supporting them in dealing with behavior problems.

When I say transparent consequences, I’m not talking about parents.  I’m saying lay out consequences for behavior x, y, z to all staff and parents in a manual and these consequences are transparent to the staff and any teacher involved in the incident.

But carry on with eyes close and it’s all normal.[/quote]

You are making a huge mistake in assuming that all of the posts on here are accurate or even from Deal parents.

There are many posts on here that echo the mostly positive (though still imperfect) experience we and other Deal parents we've spoken to have had.  And there are some posts on here that to me sound like they are not even from current Deal parents and possibly not even from DCPS parents.

But whatever try to be snarky by stating that people are carrying on with their eyes closed as if you've got it all figure out from what you read on DCUM - I'm sure that makes you feel better about all the money you are spending on your kids private school in DC.[/quote]

So you obviously know all the fake posts and trolls?  They also happen to be the negative ones you say?
Just like you know my child is in private school.
You are wrong on both counts.  
Want to do a 3rd strike out?[/quote]

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