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Reply to "Tips for dating divorced dads? How to interact with their kids or their mom if you meet them?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] With respect to the house, though -- I think the main concern here is that this guy and his kids would end up putting all the work on OP. While OP is right to be sensitive about changing the house, doing basic hygeine and repairs, and maybe adding some nicer furniture here and there, is hardly that intrusive or disruptive. But my concern would be whether the kids and their dad actually pitch in to maintain a [b]basic level of cleanliness.[/b] [/quote] The issue is who gets to decide what that "basic level" is. It is not axiomatic that the woman should be the decider. And if she wants it cleaner than they do... then she should not complain if she is required to do the work to make it so.[/quote]
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