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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Forgot to add that DH’s sister is crashing at our house for a weekend soon so she can attend a friend’s wedding. We are having construction on our home and it is yes, inconvenient and we’ll rearrange the bedrooms when she’s here. Why do we do it? Because family. [/quote] Why don't you get her a hotel room? Unless you are as cheap as she is...[/quote] Why would they pay for a hotel for her to attend someone else’s wedding? Really weird to suggest this. Adults should pay for themselves. [/quote] Yes, they should. But if you're going to coddle her by hosting during an inconvenient time, you might has well coddle her in a way that is less intrusive to your day-to-day lives. [/quote] Or just say no, you're undergoing renovations. For God's sake, these are adults right? Set boundaries. Nothing wrong with saying no! What is wrong, is saying yes and staying silent and then acting like a martyr or being passive aggressive about it. Be transparent and she can make her moves from there. This poster sounds like an overall nightmare of a SIL. [/quote]
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