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Reply to "Neighbor offered her nanny to me in a way I don't want (bus stop "supervision")"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Last sentence above is confusing. I meant to say Mom can’t deny that it is indeed more reassuring to Mom to have Nanny there. I’m not saying Mom should pay. Nanny behavior going to Boss seems a bit petty. But I bet Mom finds Nanny’s presence there reassuring. So what would Mom do if her 7 year old started playing dangerously, like on the street? Or if he got bullied by older kids passing by and Nanny did nothing to stop it? I bet Mom's reaction would be resentment if Nanny did nothing. [/quote] Seems to me that nanny’s presence is irrelevant. Mom can see the kid and decided that he is old enough to stand by himself for a few minutes, in her line of sight. She knows the kid and whether he would be likely to “play dangerously.” Nanny and her boss decided to needlessly complicate things with an attempted shakedown of OP for money. If I were OP I would find nanny’s presence uncomfortable at this point rather than reassuring. [/quote]
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