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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How much do you spend on bras? How often do you replace them?

Are you buying A-line skirts, pencil skirts, or what?

If you were a medium or small for tops in a given brand, did that really change without you gaining weight?[/quote]

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[quote=Anonymous]To the cashmere thrift store queen PP.... I'm most amazed that you stay the same size all these years. I've mostly stayed the same weight but getting older, things have definitely shifted. So skirts become too tight or bras become too small, etc. [/quote][/quote]

I used to only buy Victoria's Secret bras, and I remember one year when I stopped taking birth control, and my breasts shrank. So I had gaping cups in a lot of my bras. Now I just buy cheaper bras because I have yet to find one that really lasts anyway.

Maybe most shirts are more forgiving, but pants/bottoms are not. Part of what I'm thinking about is working out, and how I only used to do cardio all the time, because that was what they told you to do to burn calories. Now the research has shifted to show that weights + cardio are a better combo, and things have "filled out" differently. I'm mostly referring to pencil/work skirts, that would get too tight across the hips/butt area for me to feel comfortable at work. They'd be fine if I was going out at night.
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First, I'm not queen of anything. I'm uncomfortable with being portrayed as someone who is bragging or boasting, and this language sounds like a part of that. Maybe it is not what you meant, but there is a consistent theme in my stand of this thread that feels hostile to me, and I am not interested in perpetrating it.

I was a poor kid who needed to dress above her station in life to get ahead, and I was surrounded by examples of what good quality looked and felt like. This was my solution to that problem. I certainly don't recommend it to people who aren't interested in it, for whatever reason.

I never found VS bras to be of good quality. If I didn't wear the bras I do, frankly I would not be able to keep using the same clothes this many years. Gravity has its effects. A really well engineered bra puts things back in place and lasts longer than you would expect.

I wear mostly long A-line wool skirts at work, in part because I am kneeling on the floor a lot. It also means that unless my waist size changes (and it hasn't, significantly), Other changes don't really matter. My short skits on the weekend are mostly gathered cotton or a stretch wool blend, so also very forgiving./

When I wear pants, they are usually slouch style. (Loose, like Katherine Hepburn.) I can't say this was deliberate for longevity, but it has worked for me to be forgiving over the years. It is NOT up-to-the-mode stylish.

That may be why we have had different experiences with maintaining a wardrobe over time.[/quote]

I've not engaged with e back and forth of this until this post, but I'll just chime in.  Your follow ups have sounded very reasonable and provided lots of hints and explanations.  I'll just say, though, that your very first post, though you not intending to, sounded smug.  Oh, I only spend $20/month on myself.  Just flatly typing that sounds smug.  It just does.  Typing, "well, now I only spend $20/month on myself, but I've really learned what works for my body, I have built up an extensive wardrobe via thrifting, and I rarely buy anything except for replacement thrift store finds" does not sounds smug.  you've said your same impossibly low number, but you've provided a rationale.  Just saying $20 (and of course no one sees you or hears tone of voice) sends a message of superiority.  You must know you're a bit of an outlier, and so need some explanation to not sound, well, smug.  I think that's why this has derailed the original question.  [/quote]

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