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[quote=Anonymous]But I would like some physical and a tiny piece of emotional needs met (just feeling desired is an emotional need...that is how I am definining it).

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FWBs don't work out if there is any emotional need component.   You say it's only "tiny" but that's just you fooling yourself.   You want something more than just being sexually desired, which you can get from a thousand men or more, easily.

So that's why you want exclusivity.  It has nothing to do with avoiding STDs.  You want the guy to agree to be exclusive with you because it will satisfy your emotional need to feel "desirable," i.e. more desirable than just as a purely sexual partner.

On the one hand, you claim you just want casual sex and no commitment; but at the same time, you also state you have an emotional need to feel "desirable" which needs to be fulfilled too.  The only way you think that emotional need can be fulfilled is if the guy is willing to foreswear all other women.

Because you're a special snowflake.[/quote]

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