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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I still don’t understand shuttling the baby back and forth three separate times when you could’ve just fed him. You knew he turned off the monitor, you knew he refused to feed him last time, you knew he wasn’t going to do it - yet you kept plopping a crying hungry baby on DH’s bed. Not blaming you for his actions, but until you get this divorce settled, I wouldn’t be provoking him. [/quote] Because this advice is commonly given out to DCUMs whose husbands won’t do childcare or housework: “go away for the weekend and make him figure it out”, “just don’t do [the chore] until he notices”, “tell him that he needs to do the pick ups from now on”, “I would NEVER be married to a man who doesn’t do his fair share”, and my favorite “why did you marry him?” If OP had posted last week that her husband doesn’t do any wakeups, she would have been told to stop being such a doormat. When she stops being a doormat, you tell her not to provoke her husband. She can’t win, either way.[/quote]
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