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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Whenever I read these threads I laugh (sadly) at how many people thinking that having sex in a marriage makes it good.[/quote]

No, but how many sexless marriages are good? [/quote]

The point is, people here equate good marriage only with a couple having sex.  BTW there are good marriages without sex.  Some don't even share the same bedroom, but are great life partners.[/quote]

Only of this marriage started out sexless (ie, no sex while dating and the early NRE phase). Otherwise, no: there aren't any good marriages without sex (unless the normal libido partner is going outside).[/quote]

You are wrong. I have a technically sexless marriage of only a few times a year. But we still love and desire each other.

Each of us has health issues in their early 60s. Medicines help some but are not a true fix as DH cannot take some of the more effective ones safely.

It of course has not always been this way. 35 years ago we had sex daily. 25 years ago we had sex 3 times a week. 15 years ago we had sex once or twice a week.

Then life happened: job loss, sick children, dying parents, failing thyroid, menopause, weight gain, depression and scrambling to get enough work to keep the house.

This is normal. We take the long view.

Marriage is about way more than sex.

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