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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I appreciate this thread increasing my empathy for some low energy folks in my life. I'm home sick and also getting a feel for what it's like to live without my usual get up and go. Still, things need to get done around the house and we can't afford much outsourcing, so it seems like the low energy household members need to chip in. Any tips for being sensitive to their predispositions but not stagnating? [/quote] Chose your battles. Everything does not need to be done every week. Ask yourself...Would you rather be happily married or have everything done on the timetable you desire? My SIL's husband was a great guy who had sloth tendencies. She nagged him constantly and complained to everyone who was willing to listen. After he left her and she had to do EVERYTHING she finally realized he wasn't as much of a slacker as she thought and being married to a person you truly love is way more important than having her to do list complete each week. She has many regrets and so much time was wasted feeling hostile and resentful. She also realized the emotional support he gave her was worth as much as taking his turn cleaning the bathroom.[/quote]
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