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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is a bizarre thread.  Just because a girl is attractive, boys should want to date her? [b] Is it possible she is mean?  Has annoying habits?  Etc?  There are many, many reasons a boy wouldn't want to date a girl.[/b][/quote]

She is extremely sweet but very shy.  I also think it's possible some boys might be intimidated by her intelligence, which is a nauseating mom thing to say for sure, but I still think there could be some truth to that.  But I assure you she is definitely not mean nor has any annoying habits. [/quote]

I don't think it has anything to do with meanness or annoying habits either. I think shy girls tend to get ignored.
DS and his friends seem to be intrigued by the assertive, outspoken girls. They tend to excel in class, sports, singing or something else that gets them noticed. You might not think these girls are "attractive" compared to your child in the traditional sense but they stand out.
I know it's difficult for her at this age but you need to help your daughter not measure her worth by how much attention she gets from boys. That will give her terrible insecurities going forward in life.[/quote]

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