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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]"OP your daughter is lucky! Boys are a waste of time at this age. They are a distraction. Tell her to focus on doing well in school, achieving goals in sports, and enjoying her friendships. Don't worry about boys right now, hold off on that for as long as possible."

If the world only worked this way.....

If DD was not shy, she might be able to fake this suggestion until things worked out.

But being shy, taking this route is likely to lead to a time when she is approached by a guy who has way more experience than she does and intentionally or not things do not end well in one way or another.

She needs to have small time interactions that will build up her confidence and resilience.  I suggest she joins the math team or the cross country team or the HS play in the 9th grade.

If every activity that might mix guys and girls seems like a reach at this point, find a summer camp that will help solidify her skills in the desired activity.

She doesn't need to solve the problem at 14 but she does need to figure out a plan to work on it in a low key way.  Good luck[/quote]

So boys are the problem?[/quote]

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