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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I'm so sorry. Dont make any decisions now.

I have to say, however, that something about his confession is odd. Particularly that he detailed the date. This is not a drunken, work trip ONS (which I could and would forgive), but something else. I suspect you are getting trickle truth.

Sit him down and tell him that you dont know what you want to do yet, and you wont know for a while, but that you will absolutely stand no chance of staying together if he is not telling you the full and complete, 100 % truth. That he needs to tell you everything--her name, where he met her, whether they had been seeing each other more than this one date, why the condoms are missing, has he pursued other women.

Then, when he's done telling you, ask him to give you his phone and password (there, on the spot) and contact her to find out if it matches up.

Radical honesty is the only way you can get through this. I think, if he can't do it even though it is the most important condition for staying together, you see his character weakness and know that you will never be able to trust him and that he values his own self image over your marriage. If he can fully tell the truth, no matter how shameful or scared he is, then you stand a chance. [/quote]

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