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[quote=Anonymous]OP, you can either work on your marriage or think about this other guy. You can't do both. And once you have an affair- especially after going without as much sex as you want and need - you won't be able to want your husband fully.

I know this from experience.  Low-sex marriage to a low-drive husband. What should have been small conflicts grw because we didn't have that intimacy and pleasure to look forward to. When I eventually got involved with someone else I started feeling the full force of my resentment at losing sex so early in my life. You can't sleep with someone and work on a relationship with someone else. So don't do it unless it's a way to find the strength to leave or you're very good at living a double life.

Something people on DCUM will deny: you can get away with affairs. Even extended affairs. S
Most affairs are never discovered and it's pretty easy to do. The toughest part is concealing the change in temperament once you're having satisfying sex. [/quote]

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