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[quote=Anonymous]One thing I'm realizing now that DC has finished up all his college apps is how some things I thought were real passions/true about him may be a bit of a front--not totally but in part.  We didn't put on tons of pressure, but the general environment and his peers probably did somewhat and we occasionally reminded him about what would 'look good to colleges' etc.

But now that it's over, and he got in early to his first choice, he seems to be taking a breath--mid year class grades slacked a bit (mostly B+'s instead of A's), less interested in his extracurricular work.  I know senioritis is a thing and it's not that I care about getting all As. But I guess I'm relieved we didn't let college admissions drive the boat of our family life more because there's part of me who feels like there's this brief window of time living at home that I get to know my kid as a teen without "getting into college" hanging over him.  Even though he's got the outcome he wanted and we're really happy, it's kind of like "all this for just that?" kind of feeling in our family.  So I'm glad I didn't start plotting in middle school or we would probably[i] really[/i] all end up with "is that all there is?" feeling.  [/quote]

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