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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I was not a long time family friend.  Any play dates our kids had were part of much larger groups, so it isn't like they used to know me as a neighbor who is now their mom.  At most,  they remember me as someone their dad works with.

I have been to therapy related to my own divorce and I know it's best not to share adult information with kids.  The kids have no business knowing about the sex lives of their parents.  There are two sides to every story,  and I'm honestly just trying to protect my kids from having their step brother from  spew whatever version of the truth his mother has planted in his head.  This isn't about me.
 This is about protecting three young children from being exposed to misleading, inappropriate,  and one-sided information that they are way too young to understand and process.

Take your feelings for me out of this scenario and please focus on how I can prevent the dysfunction that the step kids are dealing with from spreading to my kids.  Mine are adjusting well and have accepted the divorce.   [/quote]

Wow you are already demonizing his kids?! I hope he reads this and Gets out with his kids unscathed. You are sounding more and more like the evil stepmom.[/quote]

If you wanted to protect your kids, you would not have had an affair with a co-worker, especially publicly, and then both of you divorce, taking away your kids from their other parent and stay married/co-parent..    You cheated.  You divorced your husband to marry your AP, planned your time with your kids so both sets would be together so you only had to parent 1/2 time.. sweet deal for you, not your kids whose lives have been disrupted.  I wouldn't want my kid or husband around you.[/quote]

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