Reply to Would you look the other way on cheating if everything else was perfect?

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "Would you look the other way on cheating if everything else was perfect?"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No.  Throughout the tread there have been posting's of individuals looking the other way of their spouse's infidelity.  Some might say even with kids (young) as long as the cheating spouse is a good provider and father.  What individual's are pushing aside is the message sent to the kids when trust, lying and deceit are involved.  As adults, you as spouses have a choice how to live there lives and to raise their children.  However, from experience, the message will be sent to the kids that it is ok to cheat not just to your spouse but, to their relationships.

My son of 13 years old at the time of the affair has some hatred to my XW.  As my son is 24 now, I confronted his mother that - "You will never understand how damaging it was for a child to hear her father sobbing at night. My father is, and always will be, my hero."  It torn me apart because I never discussed ever as the faithful spouse and I am just floored the he has kept this hidden so long.  And we had two younger kids at the time as well.    [/quote]

You are extrapolating your experiences to everyone else.  Not all fathers sob at night. Not all children are 13 at the time of the affair.  If you don't want your children to get into messages of trust and deceit, keep them about of adult business.  Relationship between the parents is none of the child's business. [/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics