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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What’s the longest relationship you’ve ever had? Have you had significant relationships? [/quote]

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I dated a lot before I gained the weight, I had several 1-3year relationships but nothing for the past 10 years. I had hook ups here and there but no one I would consider dating. [/quote]

Wait so you were NOT obese since childhood???

It kind of sounds like for some reason you unconsciously put on a great deal of weight during your "prime marriage years" as an excuse (but not the real reason!) for finding and staying with a long term committed relationship w/children of your own.

Once the  "prime fertility years" passed by, then suddenly--you were able to drop the weight.

[b]Something's going on here that you're not being candid about.[/b]

I think you actually know or at least suspect the answer too.[/quote]

Yeah something about the story isn't adding up. Was the weight loss during or after a break up? It's weird that there was so many years without a partner - even if fat. Fat people date - all the time - do folks not go outside anymore? Being overweight doesn't deny you relationships in of itself. More problems than just the weight. Red flag.[/quote]

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