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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My FIL would says horrible things about women in general. Like "all women should be beat." When I went to the gym, he said to my husband, "it's like she has a boyfriend or something" (I have always worked out).

Earlier this year, he picked a fight with me about directions. I said three times I was not having a conversation about it. Then he physically approached me with his iPad (after I said I don't want to see your iPad) and continued to engage (which I felt to be bullying me in my own house). My husband sat there and said nothing. I yelled at my FIL "I am not having this conversation!" and left the room.

Afterward, he instructed his wife, which she did, when I said "sorry for yelling. safe travels" in a text message to him to respond to me with an awful text message back to me criticizing my parents, comparing me to my mentally ill mother and making unwarranted and untrue comments about my husband and I.

Immediately when they left, my husband threatened me with a a divorce (not the first time). I really do want one now. I am not visiting them for Christmas and told my husband I never intend to see them again. [/quote]

You sound just as bad as they do.  [/quote]

PP here: Why do I sound just as bad as they do? Because I was defending myself and yelled at the fourth time of being baited into an argument? WTF?[/quote]

dp: You don’t sound at all like the FIL. You are not the one saying mean things and you apologized for yelling.[/quote]

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