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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think a lot of folks want to believe that whatever custody split worked for their own personal family is actually what "should" happen or what is absolutely "best for the kids."

My ex signed over custody before he even left. Was I meant to beg him for 50-50 even though he said he didn't want it? Would it have been best for my child to push a custody situation that his father didn't want?

In the years that have followed, it turns out my ex was right. He wasn't a fit parent, and knowing that might have been the most self-aware thing he ever did. [/quote]

I'm sorry for you and your children.  Many of these posters don't seem to understand that 50-50 is NOT always in the best interest of the children.  And newsflash, kids understand when a parent doesn't want to be spending time with them.  Sad, but true.[/quote]

Most parents do want to spend time with their kids.  Your statement is not true.[/quote]

Who said most parents don't? You read way too much into my statement.  [/quote]

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