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You either keep it private or tell the whole truth including character flaws on both sides that lead to affairs and relationship collapse. Partial information is misleading and damaging to the children.[/quote]

The only 100% unbiased facts are that two people were married.  One person unilaterally made the decision to cheat.  The marriage ended as a result.  Those are the only facts.  That's the whole truth.  Anything more than that is NO DIFFERENT than excusing other immoral behavior.  "he raped her because she wore a short skirt and hadn't had sex with him for 3 years and she shouldn't have been walking alone at night and must have wanted it or why would she have gone to that party? "   nope.   Nope.   Nope.   Not playing that game.

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It's not even close to the whole truth. The truth is always quite complicated. If a husband is awfully cruel to a wife or vice versa it's the cruelty that broke the marriage not the broken person that ran to the safety of another partner.  There is character flaws all over the marriage and the only thing that educates correctly is total truth. Partial truth leads to poor learning and a future of poor decisions made from incomplete and misleading nonsense.[/quote]

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