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[quote=Anonymous] I would suggest getting yourself into therapy to work through all of this. Your anger and hurt is understandable, but it’s not helping you and it’s clouding your judgment[quote] Thanks for your concern. We've actually been seeing 3 separate psychologists. One for me and one each for my kids. The kids' doctors were the ones who raised the issue of telling the children sooner than later so as to control the narrative and minimize the risk that they will experience a second major betrayal (learning that I also lied to them). Google second betrayal and you'll learn it's a very real and traumatizing event for children. I'm going to go with the advice of the doctors who know my children and the specifics of the case. We are just going to have to agree to disagree. It is always, always, always healthier to go with the truth and make sure they have the best emotional and psychological support necessary to process the information. [/quote]
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