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Reply to "reality check please - husband who sometimes forgets to lock the front door at night"
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[quote=Anonymous]DH and I had this exact same problem. He can be absentminded and it was completely a safety issue for me. I sat him down after the millionth argument and explained the safety issue. It isn’t just me nagging, I explained that I felt unsafe and was afraid someone might attack me. If I were ever attacked, I know he’d never forgive himself. DH felt bad about his forgetfulness and how much it was stressing me out and we came up w a payment policy to try to fix it — $20 paid to me every single time he forgot to lock the door. I got to spend it anywhere I wanted to. It only took about $100 before DH started remembering to lock the doors. 7 yrs later, we’ve only had about 2-3 unlocked slip-ups. More often than not, he now ends up locking me out due to overzealous locking. [/quote]
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