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Reply to "My head and my heart can’t agree on 50/50 custody"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]New poster here. OP, I was in a similar situation with 2 kids. Breadwinner + primary parent. While EVERY experience is different, once we went 50-50, my ex handled his share for the most part. I think a large part of it during our relationship was that despite my communicating my desire to have it be different, as long as I was there to handle it, I did. Very similar to your division of labor it sounds like. Once I was no longer there to do pick up, baths, reading, homework, sitting with them while they fell asleep, packing food, prepping coffee, and on and on, he did it instead on his nights. What is critical though, is that the kids get equal access and opportunity to spend time with their dad. They absolutely treasure and value that time with him. [/quote] Does this make you angry? Do you think you could have kept your marriage if he had stepped up before you divorced? [/quote]
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