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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Just did this on Friday night. My DD had 25 13 year old boys & girls over; they played games like spooky truth or dare on the trampoline, they played air hockey & ping pong, capture the flag, medusa, hide & seek (we have a huge back & front yard) & then she had 5 of the girls stay over. They're all really sweet girls, so nobody mentioned that they were staying over to anyone else at the party & nobody posted it to social media. There were no hurt feelings & everyone had a great time. [/quote] You're very naive to think word won't get out. It probably already has and it certainly will by the end of the week.[/quote] It didn’t get out... these girls would never tell anyone outside of those who stayed over because they wouldn’t want to hurt anyone’s feelings. Try not to generalize every group of kids with blanket statements, they’re not all the same.[/quote] So the other girls are supposed to keep quiet to avoid hurting anyone’s feeling, but, you and your daughter don’t have to avoid doing things that hurt other people’s feellings? Mmmmmkay.[/quote] The other girls aren't "supposed to do" anything. So, I'm not sure what your point is. They simply didn't talk about it. By Monday, the kids were on to the next party, event. And like I said, I really could not care less what you think of "my part." I have no obligation to choose between having 12 girls sleep over or finding another date/time when this one worked fine for us. I"m sorry you don't like that. [/quote]
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