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“And this thread clearly shows why this generation of kids are so emotionally fragile. How is not being included in a sleepover such a traumatic event that there are pages and pages of adults labeling OP's child a mean girl....when she clearly was just trying to include the other five girls in some part of the day so they wouldn't feel bad? It's fine to say, hey, I think it might hurt the girls' feeling so I wouldn't do it. However, the over the top painting of OP's daughter as some rude mean girl is just insane. You are not doing your girls any favors if this is how you react to minor issues.”

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Nobody said it was a traumatic event.  But it is hurtful and mean.  Ask yourself this if you can be kind why wouldn't you chose that?    I get the impression from you and op's dd that the "B" girls should be so honored to be invited to part of the party...they are so lame that surely they should be thrilled at getting the crumbs...meanwhile the girls really know the deal.  They are not true friends and it looks like a gift grab.

I wouldn't want to go to a dinner party and told to leave before the dinner...would you?  the girls probably would understand if they weren't invited because they are not close friends.  I can't believe anyone wouldn't see how mean it is to invite someone to only part of the event.  These girls would feel worse if they were invited and excluded rather than excluded altogether.[/quote]

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