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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It seems like most of the men in here are complaining about "once a week" duty sex.

Has it ever occurred to you that that's the amount of sex your wife genuinely wants and that it's not duty sex, it's just a lower libido.[/quote]

This is what we call bait and switch as it is also likely that the same wife told her BF/DH that she had a high drive when in fact, she said this just keep him on the leash.  [/quote]

DP here. This. It would be one thing if my DW had a lower libido when we were dating, in which case, I should have known better. But when I think about dating and newlywed DW and present day DW (17 years later), and it's like two completely separate people.  Yeah, I get it, people change, life happens, kids happen. But don't tell me she just has a lower libido and I married her that way so I should just suck it up, because I know better. [/quote]

[b]The point is[/b], men will view women with high libidos negatively.  I know,  I have one. I just chuckle under my breath now. [/quote]

That is clearly NOT the point of any of the previous posts. [/quote]

No, you don't get it. [b]Men like the chase, if you give it to them too easily or appear willing,  they find fault with it[/b]. As a high libido woman,  I can easily tell the men and women that play those games.

Rock on with your begging and pleading until you retire. Fork over your pensions, and penises. If sex where important to you, you would do something about it other than begging, pleading and writing posts on DCUM.

If only she would have sex with me.   :lol: [/quote]

Not true in general, and especially when we're married to them.

Are you saying we should cheat instead of trying to get our wives to do it? Are you offering? [/quote]

You need to divorce them, and reclaim your testicles.  If you are young enough,  you have something to offer the next woman other than your deprived manhood.[/quote]

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