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[quote=Anonymous]So here is my piece.
My wife and I have been extremely unhappy, she has told me a few times that she doesnt know if she can love me the way she used too (we have been together for 11 years married for 5 years, unhappy for 3). She has suffered from depression and anxiety for years and it has only intensified. Throughout this she has lost love for me, I have tried to understand and help her out. Recently the last 3-4 months her attitude towards me has been almost unbearable. Everytime she speaks to me I hear the contempt and disdain in her voice. I have tried talking to her but can only get a few sentences out before I become disheartened, and retreat into whatever sporting event is on TV. The worst part is we also have a 3 year old. My wife constantly goes out with her guy "friend" and our little one has stopped yelling for mama when my wife leaves. 
  I have found respit from a former co-worker. So far we have only exchanged texts, no pictures and we havent had any physical contact in years. I am however on the verge of   crossing that line. I have gone back and forth telling her about how unhappy I am, and what we need to do to try to fix our marriage, but I have been only able to convince myself of how unhappy I have been with her.

What should I do in that situation? Should I tell? Should I cheat and hope that I dont feel guilty about it? if i stay am i going to be unhappy?[/quote]

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