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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] Sure, nobody has to, or even should. But many people do. That’s why people here are saying it shows lack of judgement. People are going to assume you’re needy and insecure, even if you’re a former pirate.[/quote] I just can't live my life according to what people might assume about me. And I don't have a tattoo, nor have I ever wanted one.[/quote] The thread is about your opinions on tats. Not about whether you care about other peoples’ opinions. So your answer is, “I don’t judge”? Which is great. But lots of other people judge, as this thread gives constant evidence.[/quote] If you judge you have to really ask yourself:" why do I judge this person for this? What exactly bothers me in this? Does it affect me somehow?" You will find some interesting answers. We all want to be free, but very few want to be free thinker.[/quote] Not that pp. This is all well and good, but we all make snap judgements. Behavioral scientists say it’s how we make it through our days with a zillion decisions to make. I don’t have time to ponder the existential meaning of your tattoo when I’ve got to finish this project, figure out what to make for dinner and whether we have the necessary ingredients, drive safely to and from work, talk with DH about planning that vacation, get DCs to finish their summer reading and start getting school supplies, talk to my sick mom’s health aides, and so much more. [/quote]
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