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[quote=Anonymous]Please don't let the gaslight trolls influence the care you give your daughter. Only you can determine how strongly you intervene.

If this has been going on for a lengthy period of time and your daughter is truly sad, then you must intervene in a very strong and assertive way.  Begin with the principal and the move to the area superintendent.  If your child is still being bullied you then need to go to the police.

All three entities have a duty and compelling. interest to assure your child is not abused physically or psychologically.

However, this path comes with a cost.  Teachers are clannish and they are not above using their power to share information with other teachers you don't even know. Sometimes you'll end up with hostile teachers you've never met before.

If your child is not truly sad, you can try to let her work it out herself.

We cannot allow people to knock our kids around.

If the bullying is relentless it's because the teachers are complicit.  They still have "teachers pets". They here all of the gossip from the kids and in the teachers lounge.  if the bullying is relentless it's entirely because the teachers have not firmly told the bullies "This stops right now - This stops today"

However, the kids and their parents will then ostracize your daughter and that's painful as hell.

If they do ostracize you daughter then you'll need to be her best friend and do fun activities until this phase in her life.

The bullies eventually fad away.  As mentioned earlier their popularity begins to fad midway through high school. They end up destroying their own lives. Mean girls who were cute at age 10 are often times less attractive and awkward at 15.  Mean guys are often times drunks in high school, failures in college, sad 30 year olds, if not physically dead they are emotionally and psychologically dead at 40.

Come back and let the DCUM community help or at least talk to you during this painful time in your lives.

It will take time ... but eventually you be okay.

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