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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] Another agreement with this. As someone who has lived through abuse, it almost starts with things that, when you tell them to others who are clueless about abuse dynamics, don't seem abusive, like throwing a pillow. Or punching a wall far away from you. Or, in my case, pretending to hyperventilate. All things designed to stimulate the person losing all emotional control, and usually some kind of physicality to 'get out their rage'. [/quote] Let me provide some logical perspective here. Just because some abuser might have once thrown a pillow does not mean that everyone who throws a pillow is an abuser. Nor does it mean that throwing pillows will "inevitably" escalate into significant physical abuse. you may now continue with your regularly scheduled DCUM abuse freakout.[/quote]
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